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Gentle Nudges is a bi-weekly newsletter for smart, high-functioning women in their last chunk of life who are calling BS on cultural conditioning, “good girl” programming, and patriarchal ideas of how women should behave.

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Jan 6, 2026

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5 min read

Forgive Assholes (Start With the One in Your Head)

The 5-Step Self-Forgiveness Practice I Learned at 60

Renee Wood

Dec 20, 2025

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4 min read

I Said “Sorry” to ChatGPT (And It Totally Called Me Out)

Here's 10 things I won't say again.

Renee Wood

Dec 4, 2025

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3 min read

A New Field Guide for Former Good Girls

First notes on becoming whole after growing up in a culture of purity and pills.

Renee Wood

May 8, 2025

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3 min read

Closure Is a Skill (And I Sucked at It)

Ghosting is easy. Honorable closure takes guts.

Apr 13, 2025

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5 min read

Choose What Stays — Then Loud Quit Everything Else

What Will You Keep for Your Next 25 Years?

Feb 10, 2025

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3 min read

When Good Women Make Hard Choices—And Learn to Forgive Themselves

The Hidden Cost of Being 'Good'—And Why I'm Done Paying It

Feb 2, 2025

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3 min read

Still Stuck in Post-Election WTFs? 3 Simple Steps to Start Moving Again

Some Hope and Clarity if You're Feeling Politically Powerless

Jan 12, 2025

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3 min read

3 Tender Lessons to Help You Live with Regrets—Even the Ones That Still Make You Cringe

For anyone who's ready to accept the beauty and terror of it all.

Jan 9, 2025

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3 min read

3 Gentle Mindset Shifts for Midlife Women Exhausted by 'Try-Hard Living'—Even If It's All You've Ever Known

Practical wisdom for high-functioning women ready to try a gentler way forward.

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Jan 6, 2026

•

5 min read

Forgive Assholes (Start With the One in Your Head)

The 5-Step Self-Forgiveness Practice I Learned at 60

Renee Wood

Dec 20, 2025

•

4 min read

I Said “Sorry” to ChatGPT (And It Totally Called Me Out)

Here's 10 things I won't say again.

Renee Wood

Dec 4, 2025

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3 min read

A New Field Guide for Former Good Girls

First notes on becoming whole after growing up in a culture of purity and pills.

Renee Wood

May 19, 2025

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3 min read

When Joy Feels Dangerous

Gentle Nudge #1 - Maybe the risk isn’t feeling joy—but missing it.

May 8, 2025

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3 min read

Closure Is a Skill (And I Sucked at It)

Ghosting is easy. Honorable closure takes guts.

Apr 13, 2025

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5 min read

Choose What Stays — Then Loud Quit Everything Else

What Will You Keep for Your Next 25 Years?

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